One of the most frequently asked questions I get on the road is, “What are the other chapters like that you've visited?” When answering, I usually explain the college campus culture, show a photo of a beautiful chapter house or admit how I fell in love with recruitment skits.
However, I've learned every Alpha Phi chapter has more similarities than differences. From the outside, we look different – 50 members compared to 300, big houses and small houses, the USA and Canada, football and basketball fans, the beach and the mountains, and my personal favorite: tennis skirts or leggings. Yet, from the inside, we are one organization that gives women the opportunity to become lifelong friends and sisters with those who share their values. There is a not one single value that defines us, but rather many, creating an irreplaceable support system intertwined with love, humor, and wisdom. These similarities make me immediately feel at home at every chapter I visit as an ELC, and make it that much harder to say goodbye at the end of each visit. These similarities make me feel like I have the best job in the world – helping my sisters grow as an organization and as individuals. What better privilege is there than that?
So here’s my answer to the question I've been asked countless times:
While each chapter has its own nuances that make it unique, the best part about every chapter is what we have in common: our love for Alpha Phi. This similarity bonds all 190,000 of us together, and makes every new chapter I go to a place where I leave a piece of my heart, a place I call home.
Tasha Fitts (Iota Xi-Denver) is a first year educational leadership consultant. Learn more about Tasha by clicking here.